tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20895358.post7417042859676978176..comments2023-09-17T07:15:09.192-04:00Comments on Mom's Musings: Digesting and Accepting and Trying to Move On?momsmusingshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05298669293810542456noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20895358.post-38023625858858815712012-04-01T00:05:47.319-04:002012-04-01T00:05:47.319-04:00I must reinforce the fact that this is not your fa...I must reinforce the fact that this is not your fault. <br />I am also glad the doctor gave some helpful perspective. <br />Just wanting to send along some {hugs}Mommy Momenthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07570149708045560767noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20895358.post-3785033507505219452012-03-02T19:27:23.684-05:002012-03-02T19:27:23.684-05:00That is a great doctor to know how to put it all i...That is a great doctor to know how to put it all in perspective. I can see how that explanation of what you are all experiencing can go a long way to helping you cope "in the moment." And being reminded it's not your fault is important too.<br /><br />All the best to Faith and you allDebChttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07069601240108952515noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20895358.post-17162214311574410602012-03-01T21:06:14.502-05:002012-03-01T21:06:14.502-05:00Aw, Ruth! WOW, what a revelation. It's good to...Aw, Ruth! WOW, what a revelation. It's good to hear the words, but like you said, it must be hard to reconcile it all in your mind and your heart. I hope you really do take those words to heart:<br /><br />"This is NOT all your fault. You need to stop blaming yourselves. You have a part in the sleep issues, but Faith has a brain injury and will always need to have things done differently."<br /><br />Hugs my friend! You are an amazing mom, and I know that you'll do anything that Faith needs. It's even trickier when there are so many 'special' needs involved, but that just makes what you do even more special!! <br /><br />Praying that you digest this with the Lord's help, and I'm so thankful for good doctors who can explain things just the way we need to hear it sometimes.<br /><br />Luv ya, lady!<br />~ RayleneIt's OK to be WEIRD!http://itsoktobeweird.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20895358.post-90660633831700953842012-03-01T21:01:51.785-05:002012-03-01T21:01:51.785-05:00Ruth, I remember getting the same news about my ol...Ruth, I remember getting the same news about my oldest son Jonathan. Tomorrow he turns 22, and he has a part-time job, and is quite self-sufficient. He is still behind, and in most ways, my 18 year old son, has overtaken him. But it does get easier as time goes on. Keep your chin up!Laura Callumnoreply@blogger.com